I-Sex drive ayihlali ifana phakathi komuntu nomuntu.
Intshisekelo yomuntu yocansi iyonke noma isifiso sokuya ocansini saziwa ngokuthi yi-libido.
Kunezinto ezingathinta kabi isifiso sakho socansi.
• Ukucindezeleka
• Ukukhathala/ Ukuntula ubuthongo
• Ukudla okungenampilo
Abantu abaningi abaqapheli ukuthi ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuthinta isifiso sabo socansi ngoba bangase bangakwazi ukuphila ngendlela efanayo yokuhlangenwe nakho kocansi abakubonayo kuwebhu. Umlingani wabo ocansini angase angazimisele ukwenza izinto ezithile, okwenza kube nzima ukuhlangabezana nalokho abakulindele.
Udinga umlingani wocansi, futhi impilo yangempela unodoli omdala ingathuthukisa i-libido yakho.
Uma umuntu efuna ukukhulisa i-libido yakhe, angazama izindlela ezihlukahlukene zemvelo.
Gxila ku-foreplay
Kucatshangwa ukuthi ukuba nolwazi olungcono locansi kungase kwandise isifiso somuntu socansi. Kungenzeka ukuthi abantu bathuthukise okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kocansi ngokuchitha isikhathi esiningi bethintana, beqabulana, besebenzisa unodoli wothando wesifazane nokwenza ucansi lomlomo. Abanye abantu babiza lezi zenzo ngaphandle kwemingcele yeqiniso.
Gcina Unempilo
Gcina amazinga okucindezeleka nokukhathazeka ephansi ngokufaneleka nangokulala ngokwanele. Ubuhlobo obujabulisayo buhle kuwe.
Uma usebenzisa lezi zindlela, i-libido yakho izokhula.
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