Ingabe Amadoda Ahlala Isikhathi Eside Ngesikhathi Socansi Kunokushaya Indlwabu?

Amadoda ahlala isikhathi eside ocansini onodoli bangempela abashibhile kunokushaya indlwabu.

Ukushaya indlwabu kuwumsebenzi owodwa. Uyakwazi ukuyiphotha.

Uma ngishaya indlwabu, uma ngingazami ukuyenza isikhathi eside ngokuyinciphisa, ngime kancane, noma ngiyelule, ngivame ukufika ngemva kwemizuzu emibili kuya kwemithathu.

Ngenkathi ushaya indlwabu, ungumholi webutho. Kusukela ekuqaleni, uqala kusukela ekuqaleni. Uyazithwasa, unquma ijubane futhi uyakhipha.

Ukugqugquzeleka kocansi okuzwiwa owesilisa lapho enowesifazane kukhulu kakhulu kunalapho eyedwa.

Kuzwakala sengathi usemqhudelwaneni uma uthi "ukuhlala isikhathi eside ngesikhathi socansi". Akuwona umdlalo uma kuziwa ocansini. Asikho isikhathi esijwayelekile okufanele usithathe ukuze ukhiphe isidoda.

Ijubane libalulekile ngoba lapho uphusha ngokushesha, yilapho ukhipha isidoda ngokushesha. Ijubane lincike ekutheni uqine kangakanani nokuthi ukhululeke kangakanani. Ngenkathi ushaya indlwabu, yimicabango yakho nje enemicabango nesandla sakho ngomthondo. Ungakhuphula noma wehlise ijubane kuye ngokukuvumela kwakho. Ngesikhathi socansi, wumzimba wakho wonke onyakazayo futhi ugudla umlingani wakho, okukhathazayo. Ijubane elifanayo alisakwazi ukuqhubeka.

Uma ufuna ukuhlala isikhathi eside, ungagcini nje ukuphusha ngesivinini esifanayo. Yehlisa ijubane futhi ushintshe ijubane ngesikhathi esifanayo.

Ungabali isikhathi osithathayo ukuze ukhiphe futhi uqhathanise nabanye, ikakhulukazi labo ababoniswa ku-porn. Bala eqinisweni lokuthi wena kanye neyakho unodoli wocansi wesifazane onjengokuphila wasijabulela isenzo.