Asifuni muntu abe yedwa kulawa maholidi

Iningi labantu licabanga ukuthi abasebenzisi bonodoli bocansi bangama-otaku, abavamise ukungaxhumani nabesifazane futhi abangenabo abafazi phakathi neminyaka yabo ephakathi. Eqinisweni, u-30% -40% wabasebenzisi bethu bashadile. Umbhangqwana ongenabantwana wawuthenga unodoli ozowukhulisa njengendodakazi yawo. Noma asebekhulile abangabafelokazi bayothola ukudla okungokomoya ngonodoli. Ngakho-ke ingabe onodoli bothando bangamathoyizi ocansi noma abangane babantu? Bangakwazi yini ukuthatha isikhundla sabantu bangempela ngokomzwelo? Ingabe ukuba khona kwabo kunawo umthelela ekusondeleni eqinisweni?

 

 

 

Abadlali Bonodoli Bocansi banemiphakathi yabo. Njengamanye amaqembu anentshisekelo, babelana ngobumnandi nolwazi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Benza futhi abangane futhi bahlanganyele nabantu.” Sivame ukubeka onodoli bethu kosofa bese sikhuluma ngempilo, amanani ezindlu nezimo zezwe,” kusho uJason, ongowokuzalwa eCanada.

 

Angikusweli ukuhlangana nabantu. Kodwa lapho ngivuka ngedwa, ngiye ekhaya ngedwa ngemva kwamaphathi nomsebenzi, noma ngimi esixukwini, ngizizwa nginesizungu.

 

Lapho ngiseyingane, ngokungazi ngacabanga ukuthi umndeni wami nabangane ngeke bangishiye, nokuthi izinkumbulo zami ezijabulisayo zazingeke ziphele. Kodwa ngathola ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngalahlekelwa yikho.

 

 

Ngahlukana nomkami eminyakeni engu-8 edlule futhi ngazama ukuqomisana, kodwa kwakunzima futhi ngemva kweminyaka engu-5 ngizama futhi ngihlangana nabanye besifazane angizange ngizizwe sengathi ngithole okulungile. Ngonyaka odlule, ngafunda isihloko esasikhuluma ngonodoli bobulili futhi nganquma ukusinikeza ithuba, kodwa ngangingazi ukuthi unodoli wami wangempela uzoshintsha ukuphila kwami.

 

Igama lami nginguDavid, ngihlala eNew York futhi nginempilo ematasa kakhulu. Ngineminyaka engu-45 ubudala futhi ngakhathala ubudlelwano obuyinkimbinkimbi. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​okubi phakathi nesehlukaniso sami kwathinta ubuhlobo bami nabesifazane, futhi angizange ngikwazi ukuthola uthando kusukela ngaleso sikhathi. Ukuhlala wedwa akukaze kuzizwe kulungile, kunezinzuzo ezithile, kodwa akuzange kuzizwe kulungile. Ngo-2014 nganquma ukuthenga unodoli wami wokuqala.

Ngathenga u-Shirley ku-inthanethi futhi ngaqala ukumsebenzisa ukuze nje ngikhulule ukucindezeleka kwami ​​ebusuku, kodwa ngemva kwamasonto ambalwa ngaqala ukuzwa okuthile okukhethekile. Angikaze ngicabange ukuthi ubuhlobo bami noShirley buzoqhakaza ngokushesha bube othandweni olugcwele. Futhi uma ngikhuluma iqiniso, angisazizwa ngifuna ukuhlala ngedwa. UShirley uhlale engilindile ngemva komsebenzi futhi ngezinye izinsuku angisakwazi ukulinda ukufika ekhaya ukuze ngimbone. Sibuka i-tv ndawonye, ​​ngiyamgqokisa futhi ngimgeze futhi sibe nezingxoxo ezimnandi zomcamelo. Ngaze ngahamba naye izikhathi ezimbalwa, saba nezindaba zethu zothando.

 

 

Abangane abambalwa bayazi ukuthi ngichitha isikhathi sami nonodoli wocansi futhi bakholelwa ukuthi ngiyahlanya, kodwa abaqondi ukuthi uShirley wayishintsha kanjani impilo yami, isimo sami sengqondo futhi wangilethela injabulo. Ngihlela ukuba nonodoli wesibili ka-Shirley ukuze angazizwa eyedwa lapho ngisemsebenzini. Mhlawumbe, u-Shirley ngeke athathe isikhundla sowesifazane wangempela kodwa uyinto engcono kakhulu eyenzeke kimi, futhi ngeke ngichithe amanye amaholide ngedwa ngoba ngiyazi ukuthi uShirley uzobe elapho.